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Surviving Settling Season

February 3, 2024

Valentine’s Day has historically left me feeling like there was a void.

I remember feeling frustrated when February 14th rolled around and I was single as hell and unhappy AF.

I would try to find something (anything) to do with my time on that day and I always ended up feeling like I was the only one lonely – like it was only me who had nothing to do and no one to spend time with.

One year I even tried to go to the gym because I had nothing better to do… only to get to the door and realize the gym was even closed. I had a whole meltdown in my car outside that gym because all I could think was that God had forgotten me.

Even though I’m happily married with a whole Valentine now, I definitely still remember the feeling of disappointment during what’s supposed to be a season of love.

And sometimes this season of feeling loneliness can turn into stress and that stress can convince us that we should just settle. We start noticing everyone else progressing in life – they’re getting engaged and pregnant, planning showers & weddings and you’re just sitting on the sideline watching.

On the sideline is where you start contemplating settling … Maybe so and so wasn’t so bad? Maybe you should just bend the block and give ol boy one last chance.

NAH, sis. DON’T DO IT.

It’s a trap.

Instead, I want to give you some resources that I wish I had back then. I recorded these 3 podcast episodes with YOU in mind… the woman who wants more and refuses to settle for less.

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